It’s been really hard to write here. It’s always hard. I feel like whatever I say will be too abstract or go over someone’s head and backfire to make me look dumb. People have really hurt me. I know it’s somewhat my fault. I read tons of self help books and motivation/inspirational quotes hoping one day it will stick.
I lack boundaries.
You see this online. You see entries about Energy Vampires and Narcissists and the chaos they can cause on an Empath. I think this is an easier way to talk about it and creates a positive label instead of a negative one such as wet blanket or push over. It is important to be honest, it is important to own up to your issue. This is something I completely believe in. I think though it is better to call yourself an Empath without boundaries than a negative term.
I read online somewhere that someone who is a people pleaser is manipulative; I am fairly open minded with viewpoints, however, I felt as though this one was wrong.
I will continue with my thoughts on these themes in the near future. I would like to discuss the word Manipulative Vs. the word Charming. What it really means and why someone is a “People Pleaser” to me. How it feels to be a loner in a group mentality society. And so forth. Maybe throw some poems and pictures and fashion thoughts. This is my website after-all.
Sorry for this jumble – this post and website is for me.